This is a quote from "Grey's Anatomy" by the eternally confused Dr.Meredith Grey. Succinct and matter-of-fact, it made a lot of sense to me. So I am storing it for those times when I get really mad and am all ready to throw the mother of all hissy-fits!!!

"Love the people who treat you right, forget about
the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get
a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it'd be
easy, they just promised it would be worth it.”