I have epiphanies.....every now and then. At the drop of a hat, just like that. They come at the most inopportune moments.....but then again, maybe that’s the way it was meant to be. See, I ain’t complaining; I need them. Especially with the kind of utter goop (I try to refrain from profanity, because believe me, goop is definitely not what I was going for!) my life is currently in...I need all the optimism I can muster up.Today’s special:
# 1 >Sometimes you have to let go…..backing off is not necessarily cowardice, sometimes it’s just about self-preservation.
#2 >Be there for the people you want to be there for, but for the Love of God don’t always expect the favour to be returned. And no, I am not being cynical.
#3 >Impulsiveness is good, but not when the aftermath involves you banging your head against a hard-surface and calling yourself every kind of fool.
#4 >Being polite is always good, whatever the situation. Like life doesn’t suck enough…you need a perfect stranger scowling at you to complete the circle.
#5 >Never take your friends for granted…you have to respect them and some boundaries should never be crossed. Believe me, I know....
#6 >Music , books and art….the ultimate pain-killers. Surround yourself with plenty. And no, they don’t have to be what everyone’s listening to or talking about or gawping at. Whatever floats your boat.....go for it!
#7 >I never believed that load of crock where it was okay to yell at a particular person, because they love you and therefore would understand. Whoever said that was a mean, demented dork who needs to get his head examined. Obnoxious prats around the world deserve politeness and the one person who actually cares for you, needs to be abused??!?!.....um, I think NOT!........................................................................................................................
.................#8 >and yes, Green Day helps……always!! :)
Bottom line: Basic good manners never hurt anybody….treat people right and life just gets a little less suck-worthy.
